Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or...

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

No country for ugly people…

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Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

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